Now some of you may be saying that you’ve had desires in the past that got you excited, yet they never resulted in anything.
Keep in mind, though, that this is a 3-step process.
You’ve identified your desire and given it your attention.
The third step is allowing your desire to materialize, so let’s begin.
Allowing is simply the absence of negative vibration and doubt is a negative vibration.
In fact, allowing is the most important step of the process.
You may have heard the saying “just allow it”.
Telling yourself this doesn’t help you to allow.
If you doubt you can have something, you are sending a negative vibration.
This negative vibration is cancelling the positive vibration of your desire.
Simply put, having strong desire (positive vibration), and having strong doubt (negative vibration), cancel each other out.
Therefore, allowing occurs in the absence of doubt.
You know you are allowing something when you hear yourself saying statements such as:
- “Ah, what a relief!”
- “You know, maybe I can have this.”
- “Now this feels possible.”
In all three of the above expressions, what you are actually describing is the feeling of the negative vibration being removed.
Most people say that allowing is the most difficult step in this simple formula – It’s not the most difficult step, it’s only the least understood.
Most people don’t understand how to allow so they become frustrated when people say “just allow it”.
Allowing can be explained through a simple children’s game – here’s how it works.
A number of marbles rest on sticks that criss-cross through a clear cylinder.
The sticks represent resistance/doubt, the marbles represent desire, and the fallen marbles represent manifestation (allowing).
In the course of the game, the sticks are removed allowing some marbles to fall to the bottom of the cylinder.
But the only way the marbles will fall is if the sticks are removed.
In the same way, having a strong desire is not enough – it is only when your resistance is removed that your desire is manifested.
The faster your resistance is removed, the faster your desire can be realized.
Simply put, the speed at which the law of attraction manifests your desire is in direct proportion to how much you are allowing.
- Having a strong desire with strong doubt means your desire will not be manifested.
- Having a strong desire with just a little bit of doubt means your desire will come through slowly.
- Having a strong desire with no doubt means your desire will be manifested quickly.