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Step 3: Allowing your desire to materialize

Now some of you may be saying that you’ve had desires in the past that got you excited, yet they never resulted in anything.

Keep in mind, though, that this is a 3-step process.

You’ve identified your desire and given it your attention.

The third step is allowing your desire to materialize, so let’s begin.

Allowing is simply the absence of negative vibration and doubt is a negative vibration.

In fact, allowing is the most important step of the process.

You may have heard the saying “just allow it”.

Telling yourself this doesn’t help you to allow.

If you doubt you can have something, you are sending a negative vibration.

This negative vibration is cancelling the positive vibration of your desire.

Simply put, having strong desire (positive vibration), and having strong doubt (negative vibration), cancel each other out.

Therefore, allowing occurs in the absence of doubt.

You know you are allowing something when you hear yourself saying statements such as:

  • “Ah, what a relief!”
  • “You know, maybe I can have this.”
  • “Now this feels possible.”

In all three of the above expressions, what you are actually describing is the feeling of the negative vibration being removed.

Most people say that allowing is the most difficult step in this simple formula – It’s not the most difficult step, it’s only the least understood.

Most people don’t understand how to allow so they become frustrated when people say “just allow it”.

Allowing can be explained through a simple children’s game – here’s how it works.

A number of marbles rest on sticks that criss-cross through a clear cylinder.

The sticks represent resistance/doubt, the marbles represent desire, and the fallen marbles represent manifestation (allowing).

In the course of the game, the sticks are removed allowing some marbles to fall to the bottom of the cylinder.

But the only way the marbles will fall is if the sticks are removed.

In the same way, having a strong desire is not enough – it is only when your resistance is removed that your desire is manifested.

The faster your resistance is removed, the faster your desire can be realized.

Simply put, the speed at which the law of attraction manifests your desire is in direct proportion to how much you are allowing.

  • Having a strong desire with strong doubt means your desire will not be manifested.
  • Having a strong desire with just a little bit of doubt means your desire will come through slowly.
  • Having a strong desire with no doubt means your desire will be manifested quickly.
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Step 1: Identifying your desire

The very first step in getting guidance from above for you is to be clear and specific about what you want.

The challenge, however, is that most people are not very good at knowing what they do want but they are good at identifying what they don’t want.

Don’t worry, knowing what you don’t want is actually good news, and that will become a useful tool to you.

The moment you identify something in your life that you don’t like, and you spend time complaining about it, talking about it, or declaring that you don’t want it, you are offering a negative vibration to which the law of attraction swiftly responds.

But knowing what you don’t want makes you become clearer about what you do want. Simply ask yourself this: “what is it that I do want?”

The key to getting what you want without getting stuck focusing on what you don’t want is to briefly observe the the contrast-conflict.

The contrast-conflict is anything you don’t like, doesn’t make you feel good, or causes you to be in a negative mood.

Only you can decide how long briefly is.

Generally, the least amount of time you spend putting your attention, energy and focus toward contrast-conflict, the better.

Choose an area in your life that you would like to change.

On Side A, list the things that are troubling you about your situation.

For example, if you are building a contrast-conflict list about your ideal career, your list may include long hours or low payment.

Feel free to refer to a number of past jobs to help you build your list.

Take lots of time to complete this list.

Remember, adding more items to your conflict-contrast list will give you more clarity.

I suggest you add 50-100 items.

Build it up over a few days to ensure that you have thought of all the relevant episodes.

After you have completed building the contrast-conflict list on Side A, read each item and ask yourself “So, what do I want?” and complete Side B of the worksheet.

By using this technique, you will have a better understanding of what you do want (clarity of desire) by listing what you don’t want (contrast-conflict).

After you have reached clarity, simply cross off the matching item of contrast-conflict.